Valentine’s Day Love In A Book

A couple days ago, a friend reminded me of a treasured book. I recommended it to her quite a while back, and the report was both she and her daughters have read it, plus watched and loved the movie. To Kill A Mockingbird. For this reader, a great book from beginning to end, and one I relish reading over and over. And the film; if there were only a certain number of viewings available per movie, I would have exceeded and worn the images off mine years ago.

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I have read many critiques and analyses of the book and the movie, all interesting with plenty of insight into Harper Lee, her characters, and the intricacies of life in a small Southern town way back when. Yes, interesting and insightful, but none has ever addressed my particularly awkward perspective in relation to the book or the movie: I adore Atticus Finch. As I told my friend, the love of my life just happens to be a character from a book.

Of course, I do realize Atticus Finch is fictional; however, to me, his character represents the quintessential male, and I believe if a book is well written, we can, and maybe even should, have a visceral response to any or all of its characters, environs, events, story or outcomes. That is, if we love to read and allow ourselves to become a part of the book, or it a part of us. And in a world where sometimes it is difficult to tell up from down in the course of relationships, it is pleasant to visit and revisit someone who is consistently reliable and selfless in pursuit of justice and honor in both his personal and professional life, who engenders trust and comfort in all who enter his home.

And he looks like Gregory Peck. I would like to believe my feelings for Mr. Finch would be images (37)just as strong even if he had been portrayed by the likes of, say, Pee-wee Herman. But for honesty’s sake, I confess I am shallow enough to prefer Gregory Peck to Pee-wee, because Mr. Peck looks like Atticus Finch should look, and Pee-wee Herman does not.

Thinking on books, heroes, and even anti-heroes, handsome or not; tomorrow is Valentine’s Day, and I wondered, besides Mr. Finch, about the many male characters who dwell in the stories I have read. I tried to recall which ones actually made my heart beat a little faster, or caused me to wish they lived on this side of the pages of my book, wishing we actually could visit longer, and know each other better.

Surprisingly, I could not think of very many. Out of all the books read over so many years, try as I did to recall characters for whom I felt an affection, the list is fairly short, and I am not certain why. I am beginning to wonder if my standards are set a bit high, or if, perhaps, I am looking for a particular profile, and subsequently miss other perfectly acceptable options. But for now, here, in the spirit of Valentine’s Day, with all mysterious, unclear and inconsistent reasons aside, because they are not relevant at this moment, and presented in no particular order, is my list:

download (13)Maxim De Winter, from Rebecca                                 

Edward Rochester, from Jane Eyre                                                        

Professor Severus Snape, from Harry Potter

Natty Bumppo, from Last of the Mohicans

Theodore “Laurie” Laurence, from Little Women            Heathcliff-Oliver-Samuel-Goldwyn-resize 

Heathcliff, from Wuthering Heights 

Fitzwilliam Darcy, from Pride and Prejudice

Atticus Finch, from To Kill A Mockingbird

That’s it. There are more characters for whom I have cared a great deal, but not in a swoon, made me wish they could step off the pages of my book sort of way. Some of those include the Little Prince from The Little Prince, George Milton from Of Mice and Men, Seymour Glass from A Perfect Day for Bananafish (he shows up in a couple other books about the Glass family, but not as the main character), and Homer Macauley from The Human Comedy.

Interestingly, characters that did not even come close to making my most beloved list are more plentiful, and much more well-known, or at least more commonly spoken of, than the download (11)ones about whom I am so fond.  Just to name a few: Holden Caulfield, John Galt, Edward Cullen, Jay Gatsby, Rhett Butler, Christian Grey, and Sal Paradise.  If birds and clowns can be counted, then I have to throw in that annoying little rat with wings, Jonathan Livingston Seagull, and the worst of all what were you thinking characters, Pennywise the Dancing Clown, or It as he also is known.

There you have it. From the tall, dark and handsome hero; strong, capable, brooding, passionately available in an unavailable sort of way, to all those pale, simpering, narcissistic, evil or profane excuses for waste of space oxygen thieves, we respond in all manner and levels to the characters in our books. With that as a foundation, here is my idea for this year’s Valentine’s Day gift to the love in one’s life: Instead of a box of candy and a frilly card, give that person a copy of your favorite book, or at least the book with your favorite character.

Why your book instead of theirs? Easy. Your loved one already knows who he or she is; when you give your favorite, they will have the opportunity to know you more intimately and genuinely. And, forgive me, even if it is one of the dreadful Dark Tower series where Roland Deschain needs twenty pages or so to open a can of beans, or the endlessly boring journey of that nameless father and his nameless son dragging on and on in The Road; the favorite book you share with your person may just become a book they, too, will love. At the very least, there is a treasure passing between two people, and that is a gift I think should touch any Valentine’s heart.

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About Valleygrail

Native Californian by birth, Pacific Northwesterner by choice. Jack of all trades, master of none; always wishing I could stick with just one thing long enough to become expert. But then what about all those things left unattended? See? Not possible. I love life, my family, friends, a good book, Irish music, rain, fog, and a pint of Guinness. It's a good journey, and sharing with companions makes it even better. Thanks for being with me as I embrace it and you!
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13 Responses to Valentine’s Day Love In A Book

  1. Hey, great minds . . . the next book I’ll be covering in my ” Books that Mattered” blog is To Kill a Mockingbird, one of the touchstone books of the baby boom generation. Really like your take on Atticus Finch — can’t think of a nobler figure in recent literature. (I can’t seem to separate Atticus from Gregory Peck in my mind: talk about perfect casting!). Thanks for an as always well-written and fascinating post.

    • valleygrail says:

      Thank you! I will be watching for your take on To Kill a Mockingbird. Have you explored the Truman Capote connection to Ms. Lee and her book?

      • Actually, I don’t know all that much about Capote and Harper Lee, except that they were good friends. Guess I’ll look around to see what I can find out about them. Do you know anything of interest?

        • valleygrail says:

          I am no expert, but what I have read is it is a great mystery, or possibly no mystery at all; just something about which people like to guess. They were childhood/lifelong friends; he is the inspiration for Dill in the book. Guesses about the book and the friendship range from he wrote To Kill a Mockingbird to he edited it slightly to heavily. They had a falling out after he wrote In Cold Blood because he may or may not have given her enough credit in researching his book. Or she possibly wrote In Cold Blood. She never wrote another book, and he never had any great success after In Cold Blood. No one will ever know any more about these issues, because he is gone, and she is in her late 80’s and has not given and interview since 1964. Fascinating pair, these two were!

  2. ermigal says:

    I really, really, really enjoyed this post, ValleyGrail. That is a favorite book of mine also. Nicely done–thank you! 🙂

  3. Wonderful book and movie. When I’m reading a good book, I get so lost in it that it pains me to come back to reality. I’ve been that way since I first discovered the joy of reading way back when my age was single digits. 🙂

  4. What a wonderful post! And I learned a lot from it, and it made me think. The male characters you choose are from ‘older’ books, which doesn’t make the characters less attractive, but makes me wonder if ‘newer’ books are unable to characterize the kind of male we women can admire. I have just finished reading the book “Me Before You” (recommended on Goodreads), and I wonderf if you’d find the main male character in that book someone you’d add to your list? I have decided, upon reading your blog, that I would add him to mine. Also, I’d add at least one of the two main male characters in my romantic suspense (The Right Wrong Man) on my list. For me, as a writer, I want to create the kind of male that you write about and admire in this blog. 🙂

  5. btg5885 says:

    Love this post. I am huge fan of the book and movie. Atticus is a hero to many and actually created more lawyers than any other person real or fictional. “Some people are meant to do our unpleasant tasks. Your father is one of them.” I probably butchered the line, but I love that part of the movie. I am not sure if Pee Wee Herman could have lent the right substance, so you are OK to be shallow with Gregory Peck. Thanks for sharing, BTG

  6. Anonymous says:

    Can I ask why you included Heathcliff on your list? He did some vengeful and cruel things in the novel. I know he is admired as a romantic anti-hero but I never understood why.

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